Become a Leader in the Church
Don’t stop with anger, though. You will mess up. If you take action on your first reaction, you will say and do things that you will later regret. He didn’t just get angry. Look at the second stage. He did some reflection. Nehemiah 5:7, “I pondered them in my mind….” The word ponder in Hebrew means I consulted with myself. I talked to myself. “Can you believe these wealthy Jews? Can you believe the people financing the rebuilding of the wall are doing this to the less fortunate? I can’t believe it.” He began to talk to himself.
Then the third state is very difficult. It is tough to transfer from stage two, the reflection stage, to stage three, the resolution stage. Leaders take the initiative and they refuse to lose their unity. They have the courage to confront problems and difficulties. Most people, especially in marriages, when there is a problem, will get angry and reflect.
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